Life is full of events. It also has comfortable as well as challenging situations. Life also has moments worry and concern, good and bad times, ups and downs and so on… if we are a person balanced both in thoughts and actions, we will be able to get over any situations in our life. and if we are not, then we will accept all good things in our life and try to avoid / dislike all bad things in our life , including any challenges that may come across in our life; it could be physical mental or financial. Fun loving people always enjoy the better side of their life. and they mostly try to avoid such challenging situations.
Our attitude is everything, it can make our life heaven or hell. There is a lot of difference in our attitude , as an individual and as a family man. As long as we are an individual, we generally don’t have to bother about anything/ anyone. Just live our life and we are answerable to none. and we accept everything that comes in our way – good or bad – because here we cannot blame anyone.
Where as when we become a family person, means getting married and settled in life, then our ‘Attitude has many definitions. We come under a ‘frame work’ within which we have to fit in ourselves. other members in this framework are ‘our own family’. And everyone has certain responsibilities to make our family life happy and beautiful. And if u are the head of the family, then obviously u will have more.
It is here, in our family life that each one of us will have to make some adjustments, forgo some comforts, even make some sacrifices – all for our family.
We all know famous Issac Newton’s law of gravity, ‘For every action there will be an equal and opposite reaction’. So, it is our actions that call for a suitable reaction. and at times, without analysing our own action, we tend to critisise the opposite reaction and we land up in arguments and situation goes out of control.
And over a period, when the overall situation becomes unbearable, some of us often get frustrated and instead of taking actions to reslove the issues to set the things in order, often try to find an easy way out, with out realising the fact , i am part of this family and I have equal responsibility to set the thing straight.
Often we think about such easy way out is because, we think if i get out of here I can be more happy and live my own way etc … But often we realise, when reach on the other side, though initially thinks may be ok but soon we find the situation becomes worse than the earlier situation.
There are many things we can share on this subject. That is not my aim. It’s our life experience and life exposure that made me to share these few points.